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"Preparation for Life"
by Phil Hansel,
Not everything we
do in life is a pleasant experience. Not everything we do is beneficial. Not
everything is productive. Not everything is a nurturing, loving experience.
Life is full of negative, destructive experiences. Rejection, defeat and
failure surround all of us. The trick is to be prepared to deal with this side
of life and learn to overcome discouragement.
I have always
felt that the great value of swimming as a sport is that it prepares one for
life. The total swimming experience is made up of people, attitudes, beliefs,
work habits, fitness, health, winning and losing, and so much more. Swimming is
a cross section of lifetime experiences. It can provide so many learning
situations. A swimmer learns to deal with pressure and stress, sometimes
self-imposed, sometimes applied by others. One learns to deal with success and
failure. One learns teamwork and discipline.
Swimming becomes
a self-achievement activity. There is only one person in the water in a given
lane in any race. The responsibility for performance ultimately lies with the
individual. How well the individual has prepared physically and mentally to a
large degree will determine the performance level.
Many swimming
experiences can be of the disruptive, discouraging type. But at least a young
swimmer learns that this is part of life, and the swimmer must learn to cope.
By learning how
to handle frustration and disappointment, the young swimmer gains confidence.
The swimmer learns dedication and commitment. Through perseverance, a swimmer
learns to overcome adversity. All of these experiences tend to develop an
individual who is better able to handle life's hardships and face problems.
As coaches and
parents, we tend to preach that hard work will lead to victory. We preach that
clean living and proper training such as diet, sleep and regular attendance at
workouts will lead to winning. Though in the long run for a productive
successful life, these are probably truthful concepts that don't always work
in short term situations.
We have all been
in situations where a bigger, more gifted person with poor work habits is the
victor in race after race. Or we've known others who never seem to study, yet
get good grades. We've known business people who never seem to lift a finger,
yet for one reason or another, they close deal after deal.
These things just
are not fair. Yet this is one of the valuable lessons that swimmers learn:
"Life is not fair." We don't all start out in life with the same
physical, mental, emotional and financial resources. In that respect,
"Life is not fair."
A swimmer
must learn what is fair for one is not necessarily fair for another. A swimmer
learns we are all different and each individual controls his or her own
destiny. A swimmer learns to emphasize given talents and skills. A swimmer
learns to improve on a regular basis. By not setting limits and restrictions,
this improvement will surely lead to success. A swimmer learns if he or she
does their best, then there are no failures. A swimmer learns to set realistic
goals. Once a goal is reached, then new goals must be established. A swimmer
learns that effort becomes an individual crusade. If the ultimate goal is an
Olympic gold medal, then with the proper talent, dedication, belief and
support, all swimmers believe it can be done.
This is the
positive achievement side of swimming that I like so much. Through experience
in swimming, our young people learn attitudes and habits that will remain with
them throughout the rest of their life. Most swimmers learn to be "can
do" people.
Generally, these
positive attitudes, belief in self and solid work habits will produce a
terrific adult. Our society and our world is enriched
by these former swimmers as they become adults. Because of their training, they
handle life with a smile. They contribute time and energy to others in every
way imaginable.
We can be proud
of what swimming contributes to this world. Though "life is not
fair," a swimmer knows how to deal with that and can achieve a balance.
For the most part, former swimmers grow up to be ordinary people, but they
always have that extra plus from the swimming experience.
We are different
and can be proud of it. It's a pity and truly "unfair" that thousands
and thousands of young people are missing the swimming experience. We must open
our programs to everyone. We must find ways to share our fantastic sport.
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